Written By: Chasidi Dugar
Do you find it hard turning a girl on sexually?
Want to know some proven ways to turn a girl on without getting her blind drunk?
I’m talking to the point where she’ll be dry humping your leg, begging you to take her back to your place.
Yep these techniques are THAT good 🙂
Unfortunately a lot of guys find it incredibly difficult to turn a woman on and that’s why they don’t get laid.
So I’m going to put a stop to that today, by showing you the best ways to turn a girl on sexually with both verbal and non-verbal techniques.
VERBALLY (NON-PHYSICAL SEXUAL ESCALATION)
The first key to sexual escalation is verbal, you need to seduce her with your words… then you move onto the physical which will push things over the edge with her.
TALK ABOUT SEX… DOH!
How can you expect a woman to think about having sex with you, if you don’t plant those thoughts in her mind? Well the simple answer is, she won’t.
While you’re building rapport with her, you need to throw in a few thought provokers that help her think about you in the sack.
Hey look at the way that girl is dancing over there, you can totally tell she’d be terrible in bed by the way she’s moving.
I was reading something in the paper on the tube the other day which said that women who wear bright red lipstick or better at giving blowjobs than women who don’t (WARNING ON THIS ONE, IT’S ADVANCED)
I was talking to a girl-friend the other day and she said that women relate dancing with a guy to sex… is that true?
ISOLATE THE GIRL
If you want to seriously ramp up the sexual tension you need to isolate the girl, it’s the only way she won’t be distracted by her friends and you can work your magic. Lead the situation by taking her somewhere quiet and continue to build rapport further.
If you don’t know how to take her away from her friends, say something like:
Hey listen, I need to get a drink… come with me.
Man I’m starving, let’s go and get some food then we can come back before it closes
Come with me I need to show you something…
SLOW DOWN AND TALK SEXY
If you want to be more seductive you have to be smooth with your words. By slowing down with the way you speak, pausing in between words and looking into her eyes while you do this, she will be eating out of your hands.
NON-VERBALLY (PHYSICAL SEXUAL ESCALATION)
We’re now going to go over the physical side of things… this is where it really heats up.
PULL HER INTO YOU
Women like a guy who is strong… so look into her eyes, put your hands around her waist and slowly pull her into you, so your pelvis is touching hers. This is very sexual and will setup a kiss perfectly.
I’d go as far to say that it’s the best way to turn a girl on, because it shows you’re a dominant male.
USE THE “TRIANGLE GAZE METHOD”
This is a proven technique that helps build sexual rapport and accelerates the chance of a kiss very quickly.
When you are looking at her, start from the left eye (hold for 3 seconds) then move to the right eye (hold for another 3 seconds) then look at her lips for a couple of seconds. Repeat this for a minute or two… you are basically planting the idea in her mind that you want to kiss her.
If she asks you why you keep looking at her lips, tell her the truth!
CHEEK KISS TEST
Some guys just don’t know when they should be going in for a kiss, here’s a great way to tell if she’s ready.
Go in for a cheek kiss (with your hands holding each arm), but make sure it’s very close to her mouth, when you’re close see what her reaction is… does she move her head away as if to reject you or does she go in for a real kiss? If she moves away, go in for a second kiss but keep your hands holding her arms. Why you ask?
Simple, if you remove your hands from her arms when she moves her head away from the kiss, it sub communicates that you have acknowledged she is rejecting your kiss. However if you leave your hands there and go in for a third kiss, making it obvious that you’re going for the cheek, it makes her look like the fool… clever huh?
We’re all highly sexual animals at the end of the day, so grooming her will communicate that you “care” about the way she looks and her well being. Simply brushing her hair away from her face and placing it behind her ear is enough to escalate.
KISS HER FOREHEAD
Girls love it when guys kiss their forehead, it shows affection and no matter how hard a girl tries, she won’t be able to resist liking you that little bit more.
It’s what they see in the movies, so it’s subconsciously embedded in their mind and just always works, so use it.
TOUCH HER WAIST/STOMACH
If a girl let’s you touch her waist and leave your hand there without pulling away… then you can kiss her. It’s a surefire sign my friend, go in for the kiss.
On the flip side, if she ever touches your stomach or chest, it means she wants to kiss you, guaranteed.
PLACE YOUR HAND ON HER FACE (OPTIONAL)
This is quite a manly dominant thing to do, if you place both hands or one hand on her face, then go in for the kiss… there’s not much she will do to resist.
Seen as though women like to be lead sexually (well most do anyway) she will never pull away, she’ll just go with it.
READ HER SIGNS AND ACT
If she’s looking at you (lingering) with intent, her pupils are dilated and she’s leaving her hand on your stomach or arm, it means she wants to kiss… so go for it.
The more you do this, the easier it will become because you’re going to be able to read the signs and instinctively act.
After trying some or all of these I guarantee you that you will hit it in less then a week. I know your wondering, why in the hell am I letting the ladies secrets out? Well you can thank Steve Harvey for that!!